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Olive update

Here are some of the details from today.  She passed her neurological exam, perfectly normal.  After hearing her history, family history, etc. he narrowed it down to seizures, heart issues, or pallid breath holding spells (also called reflex anoxic seizures–info below).  He is leaning toward the latter.  She did an EKG today and passed that, they drew blood to test for anemia (this can cause the BHS).  She has an EEG scheduled Oct. 21 (5 days before my due date!–great…)  His thoughts are that the EKG & EEG will come back negative.  COULD it be something way worse (i.e., brain tumor)?  yes, but very unlikely and he felt like the risk of an MRI was greater than the need for it–BJ & I agree.  Because her falls are always “provoked” as he called it, there is less reason to worry.  So…in the meantime, if she does it again, do what we’ve been doing by letting her lay there and her come out of it on her own.  If it stays in the same pattern, do nothing.  If the pattern changes, bring her to the ER.

My brain is fried at this point so I’m sure I’ve left something out–ask away if I have!  thank you everyone for your prayers, it means so much to us.  BJ & Aubin

Here is all of the info for those of you who want to know more)

Pallid Breath Holding Spell

About 20 percent of affected children have the pallid form of BHS in which the child turns pale. It also is called type 2, white breath-holding, reflex anoxic seizure, or pallid infantile syncope. The pallid form of BHS typically follows a frightening or painful experience.

Causes

Although the exact physiological mechanism of breath holding spells is not understood, they are an involuntary reflex caused by the interplay between the respiratory control center of the central nervous system, the autonomic nervous system, and the cardiopulmonary system.

PALLID BHS Pallid breath holding spells are unpredictable. They usually occur in response to being startled, frightened, in pain, immunized, or injured, particularly after hitting the head.
In a pallid BHS the brain sends a signal via the vagus nerve that severely slows the heart rate, leading to a temporary cessation of breathing and loss of consciousness.

Risk factors

There appears to be a genetic component to at least some breath holding spells. About 25 percent of affected children—particularly those who experience pallid BHS—have a family history of BHS or fainting.
In some cases breath holding spells may be associated with anemia (a reduced number of red blood cells) caused by an iron deficiency, although this is controversial. Treatment may decrease the number of spells in some anemic children; however, treatment with iron increases the frequency of spells in children who are not anemic.

PALLID BHS In a pallid breath holding spell a child do the following:

  • gasp and the lower jaw may quiver, but there is little or no crying
  • experience a slowing heart rate or the heart may even stop briefly
  • turn pale
  • sweat
  • stop breathing
  • lose muscle strength and go limp
  • faint or lose consciousness
  • experience muscle twitching or body stiffness while unconscious
  • have a seizure

Following these responses, the child’s heart speeds up, breathing resumes on its own, and consciousness returns. The child usually recovers completely within one minute but may feel sleepy.
Seizures are much more likely with the pallid form than with the cyanotic form of BHS. Seizures during breath holding spells are more likely if breath holding lasts longer than usual. A child may vomit or urinate during a seizure.

Breath holding spells can be distinguished from epileptic seizures using the following criteria:

  • BHS are provoked by an event or situation.
  • BHS seizures are brief.
  • Recovery from BHS is rapid.
  • The change in skin color and loss of consciousness with BHS occur before any seizure-type jerking.
  • With epilepsy, convulsions and muscle weakness precede the loss of skin color.
  • An electroencephalogram (EEG) that records electrical activity in the brain is normal in all forms of BHS, whereas it may be abnormal with epilepsy.

If a child is anemic, iron (at 6 mg per kg [2.2 lb]) of body weight per day for at least three months) may reduce the frequency of breath-holding spells. If pallid breath holding spells are frequent and severe, a preventative anti-cholinergic medicine such as atropine sulfate may be prescribed, in consultation with a neurologist or cardiologist. The dosage is usually 0.1 mg of oral atropine three times daily. Anti-convulsive medications have no effect on breath holding spells.

Prognosis

There are no long-term effects of breath holding spells. Both types of BHS cease without treatment as the child’s brain and body develops and matures. The cyanotic form usually peaks at about two years of age and is rare past the age of five. Both types of BHS disappear by the age of four or five in about 50 percent of affected children and in 90 percent of children by the age of six.
Up to 17 percent of children with pallid BHS will experience syncope (fainting spells) as adults, usually in response to fear, injury, or emotional stress. Children with cyanotic episodes are not at a greater risk for syncope as adults.

Parental concerns

Breath holding spells can be extremely frightening for parents, siblings, and caregivers. Families need to be reassured that BHS is not a harmful or dangerous event and that no treatment is needed. It is important that caregivers understand the cause of breath holding spells and the proper response.
During a breath holding spell parents should:

  • Protect children from injury and prevent their arms, legs, and head from hitting something hard or sharp.
  • Lay children down on their back or side, preferably on a padded surface such as a carpeted floor; this increases blood flow to the brain and helps prevent muscle jerking.
  • Check for food in the mouth if the child ate just before a spell. Parents should not try to remove the food; rather the child’s head should be turned to one side so that the food can come out on its own.
  • Touch and talk to the child.
  • Allow children to wake from the spell on their own.
  • Time the spell with a watch.

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BJ & I have been blessed to have so many amazing friends.  Friends who are there through thick and thin, friends who make you laugh, friends who are putting their whole life into following Jesus.  Todd & Lori Magouyrk are two of those amazing people.  I knew Todd from Georgia, all four of us went to Liberty where all paths crossed.  Lori has become a dear, dear friend of mine and the same for Todd & BJ.  They are planting a church in Charleston, SC.  This couple has an amazing passion for God and we are 100% confident God is going to do amazing things through them in Charleston.

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I wouldn’t go so far as to say we “begged” God to let us be a part of their church plant :) but we really wanted to be.  However, God didn’t open that door so we are supporting them from afar.  So many of our friends are joining them on this journey–it’s going to be amazing.

Anyway, I just wanted to put their names and faces before you as they travel this new road.  PLEASE pray for them–for their support to come in (if you feel led to give, please please do!); for the enemy to be far away from this family; for God to continue to work in their lives as a couple and in their children’s lives.

Todd & Lori

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River Church–check it out!!!

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34 weeks and counting…

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Okay, this is so random, why am I posting this, you ask?  I was originally going to post this on Jan. 26.  When I was 34 weeks pregnant.  It was a little over a week after I started to do this when my Dad had his accident and no longer did I care about whether the baby was a boy or a girl, what outfit he or she wore.  All that mattered was life.  Not going into labor early and praying day and night for my Dad’s life.  Isn’t it crazy how life can turn on a dime?

On that note, please click on the “Pray for Stellan” link at the right.  Stellan is in need of our intense prayers again.  My heart hurts for this family.  And most of all, I could literally slap myself for all I complain about/cannot seem to deal with.  I mean, seriously??

(as for the outfits, you know know which one got worn and which one is put away for possible future use :)

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orange for Stellan

We are praying for Stellan in our house today–please join us!  This post said to wear orange for Stellan, so here they are.  img_6066img_6061

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new prayer request

A lot of you have read the “Praying for Jonah” blog.  If you are reading that, you’ve probably read her recent post on “MckMama”.  If not, you can click on the “Praying for Stellan” link under Jonah’s on my blog.  A lot of people who found out about Jonah were directed there from MckMama’s site.  Stellan is in desperate need of our prayers–his heart must get into a normal pattern.  Be sure to read his WHOLE story, how he was never even suppossed to survive inutero.  It’s amazing.  Let’s cover this little guy in prayer.

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A couple of family pics we took not too long after Olive was born–3 days old I think.

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DALONGA DALONGA DALOU

This is what I heard/saw when I looked down into the basement to check on the kids.  They were holdings hands, and saying “Dalonga dalonga dalou” and then they all three fell down and next thing you know they were in a different world.  I absolutely LOVE our kids’ imagination.  It is so awesome–they have always played pretend in the most creative way.

I tell that story because there have been several times since Olive has been born that I’ve wanted to chant those words and possibly wake up in a different world or land.  Just being honest.  In fact, I’m using this as an opportunity to start a new “section” in my blog called “HONEST AUB”–get it, play on words with “Honest Abe”?  Okay, call me a dork, I keep coming back to it so I’m going with it.  So here’s the first “H.A.”

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  • this birth has been followed by the most hormonal craziness than I have ever experienced following a birth.  I was on an amazing high–and a few days later hit probably my lowest low.  I went from laughing to crying in a matter of seconds (just ask my amazing husband).  I have spoken with a few friends of mine who have four or more children and they’ve all said in agreement that the hormonal stuff gets worse with the more children you have.  awesome.  not really.  I am doing okay now, though, for those of you who are worried.  But I would appreciate your prayers.
  • Mom watched the kids last night for us–thank you mom!!  So it was just BJ, Olive & I at home.  B and I watched “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas”.  I can’t give it my stamp of approval considering its off color humor–however, I freaking laughed my face off!  I LOVED it.  Is that wrong?  So sorry, but like I said today, “Way to go guys for making a movie that made this post partum girl laugh”!  I think it was great.  Many awesome one liners I will SO be using.
  • I can’t get ahold of my house and keep it maintained.  I know, I know, she’s 10 days old.  I don’t care, it’s driving me crazy.  Trying to figure all of that out.
  • I do not feel like I’m being a good mom AT ALL to my other three kids.  My tone is short, my mind is focused on Olive and making sure she’s eating, pooping, sleeping & waking enough.  Therefore I know my other kids–and BJ–are suffering.  Please, PLEASE pray this season will pass.  I have got to get control of my tongue and my attitude.
  • Still having some issues with nursing so I’d appreciate your prayers there.  Not sure what’s going on, won’t go into detail.  Just not going as smoothly as I’d like.
  • I am beyond blessed to have such an amazing husband and father to our kids.  He’s unbelievable.  He deserves so much praise.

I’m sure there’s more.  For now, that’s all of honest me.

Onto my other kiddos.  Zoe is absolutely loving having a baby sister.  She wants to hold her all of the time, is constantly concerned with where she is, how she is, what she needs, what I need to do for her, everything.  She is a precious girl.

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Judah is totally (or if not totally, VERY close) to being on board with the fact that he has a new sister and not a new brother.  He is very compassionate to her, talking sweet to her.  And he & Zoe have learned to ride their bikes WITHOUT training wheels, so he’s very pumped about that.

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And Shiloh.  Oh Shi Shi.  A run for the money.  That’s the only way I know how to describe her.  I love her to death, you know I do, but girl is a whirlwind!!  She changes her clothes every five minutes–LITERALLY.  Any advice on that one to you moms of girls?  I’ve NEVER had a child do this.  She wants to wear mine, Zoe’s & the baby’s clothes.  not her own.  not her dress up ones (usually not, that is).  From one end of the house to the other is a string of Shi’s shoes and all of our clothes.  Another Shi post coming soon, it deserves a post of its own.

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And finally Olive.  She’s a sweetie.  A very good baby.  The doctor said her jaundice is looking fine, and it’s really going away.  She’s so perfect and cute.  We got to show her off at church today so that was a lot of fun.  Here are some new ones we took of her.  The knitted cocoon was made by my amazingly talented friend Regi.  It is AWESOME!!  We’d seen some ideas online and she did one for me as a baby gift–completely made her own pattern and everything.  Thank you friend!!

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A lot of people, including us, are starting to think she’s looking more like Judah–what do you think?  I still see Shiloh in there but Judah’s there too.  Genetics are so interesting.  More to come soon.

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Hello everyone.  The proud mama part of me really wants to post about our sweet baby Olive–and just to let you know, she is doing great.  But I was recently sent information about a baby born about a week before Olive who desperately needs all of our prayers.  If you can, PLEASE take the time to click to the right on the “pray for Jonah” button.  His desperate fight for life will break your heart–and yet we NEED to be standing in the gap for this family.  I am so burdened for them.  And no, I do not know them personally.  A friend emailed me an email she had received.  I was first interested in their story because this family’s first baby, Gabe, was stillborn.  BJ’s sister, Aimee and her husband Jay lost their first baby, Micaiah, inutero.  Ever since then, I am drawn to stories about people who have gone through similar experiences.

But now that I see this family has had a second son and he is ALIVE and FIGHTING for his life, I just cannot help but tell those of you who do not know about it to please check out this site and pray for them.

Also, if you were a part of the facebook group who was so sweet to pray for us while Dad was in the ICU and you have sent gas money or giftcards–thank you thank you thank you!!  We have been beyond blessed.  If you planned on helping us in that way, and have not done so yet, we are asking you to PLEASE send what you would’ve sent to us to this family.  You can find their mailing address on this page of their blog. We are so grateful for your giving and yet we do not have near the need for those gifts at this point and this family does.

Thanks again for your prayers for Jonah.

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My Dad

Lamentations 3:22-23 (English Standard Version)

22 The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases;
his mercies never come to an end;
23they are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.

Lamentations 3:22-23 (The Message)

22-24God’s loyal love couldn’t have run out,
his merciful love couldn’t have dried up.
They’re created new every morning.
How great your faithfulness!
I’m sticking with God (I say it over and over).
He’s all I’ve got left.

Lamentations 3:22-23 (Amplified Bible)

22It is because of the Lord’s mercy and loving-kindness that we are not consumed, because His [tender] compassions fail not.  23They are new every morning; great and abundant is Your stability and faithfulness.

Lamentations 3:22-23 (Contemporary English Version)

22The LORD’s kindness never fails!  If he had not been merciful, we would have been destroyed.  23The LORD can always be trusted to show mercy each morning.

I posted the following update on my Dad to my facebook account last night but thought since some people only read the blog I should post it here, too.  As of 8:20 this morning, I have heard no news through the night, which I am taking as a positive thing.    Thank you to everyone who is praying and asking about him.

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My Dad was in a head on collision a little after midnight last night, Feb. 6. He was life flighted to the hospital. These are the injuries listed upon his arrival: torn aortic artery, laceration in liver, internal bleeding from spleen, crushed pelvis, shattered hip that will need hip replacement, possible broken leg and shoulder, two major cuts on his face.

He made it through the first surgery, which was to repair the torn aortic artery. However, now his lungs are a major concern, because he is a smoker and they went under so much trauma during the accident, so he is on 100% oxygen and under sedation. There is a risk of paralysis in his legs due to tear surgery that we won’t know about until they bring him out of sedation .

They are cautiously telling us that while yes, it is a big deal he made it through the surgery, he is still in very very critical condition and one of those things above could be life-threatening to him because of the state of trauma his body is in.

The police reports states the driver of the other vehicle crossed the center line and struck Dad, which is what the marks on the highway show. Unfortunately, the man who hit dad was killed. We have been in a state of agony from not knowing who was at fault (and being told by one state trooper it was Dad’s fault) to now hearing it is not Dad’s fault. The range of emotions have been unbelievable.

We are obviously in desperate need of prayer from everyone for our dad, Paul. Not just for our his life to be saved but for his mental state.

Thank you so much to everyone who is asking about Dad–it means so much.

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deployment

My heart is heavy today as I think about my sister’s husband being deployed to the Middle East for seven months today. Josh is in the Marines and Audrey will be left with our nieces (ages almost 3 and 7 1/2 months) for seven months. Just when I start complaining about BJ getting home late or how I “can’t do it all” I’m quickly brought back to reality by this thought.

Audrey is such a strong Christian and her faith is so deep–that while I know she’s got to be dying inside I’m not worried about her not being able to get through it. It’s just good for those of us whose husbands won’t ever be deployed to be reminded to pray for those women (and men) whose spouses are or will be.

So remember these guys over the next seven months in your prayers. Aud & the girls aren’t living close to family right now so pray her church family & friends will really come along side of her (which I know they already have) and support her. Pray for Josh’s safety and for the girls while their Daddy is gone. Thanks guys!

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